Relationships

One of the most important things in life is relationships (personal, professional, business, and spiritual). There may be other aspects of life that are also relationship oriented, but the types mentioned above are primarily where most of us focus our efforts. Many people may not think that spirituality is significant in life, but I can assure you that it is. Your spirituality may be extremely important when it comes to interacting, understanding and working with others.

Most of us want healthy or fruitful relationship and the more your grounded spiritually, the better your relationships will be with others. Understand that business relationships can be very peculiar. There are so many factors that have to be taken into consideration. We must consider trust, sincerity, a certain amount of life balance and at times finance.

During The Keynote, I was challenged with trust and ability more than anything else. I always rely on my own effort and know how, however I was challenged with getting to know other professionals, learning about their industry and their work effort. I also had to learn how to communicate with my cast mates. When I say communicate, I’m talking about sharing and understanding (listening and speaking). My life experience has shown me that to rely on others is risky, but with The Keynote I embraced moving outside of my comfort zone and I developed some serious relationships. These relationships will more than likely last many years and hopefully a lifetime.

The relationships from The Keynote transcend race, age and industry and that’s one of the things that make the reality show that we are in so much more different than the typical reality show that you’d see on television today. Although I don’t know everyones spiritual belief system, I do know that we were a lock even pretty much from day one. Delatorro (though young) has an old soul and makes for a really good coach, mentor and friend.

Professional relationships echo some of the same sentiments, attributes or benefits that business relationships have. One of the biggest differences is that you are the main focus. If you are a solo-preneur it’s up to you to know your stuff and to have it down pat. If you’re working with others in business (partners / collaborations) that’s when there’s more expectation or understanding as it relates to focus, trust, sincerity and life balance.

Many of The Keynote cast members have collaborated on different projects since that mansion experience and that’s another example of the relationships that have been developed.  There is a part of your personal development that is woven through every aspect of your life. That includes things listed here and things that are not listed here. Believe it or not you also have a personal relationship with your self that relates to your thoughts, your actions, your abilities, your inabilities, your choices and so much more!

As you probably know this topic is a very realistic part of our lives, but we rarely discuss it. Some of these same elements are displayed and played out in The Keynote, but in a entertaining, business oriented fashion. Help us raise the funds to produce this program and bring it to you (the masses) without bad behavior and drama! We believe in quality television programming. For some of the best perks in the world Go to: http://TheKeynoteCampaign.com

I would encourage you to consider how relationships affect your life. Take a 5 minute break and write down how you feel about the following relationships listed below or where you are as the following aspects of relationships relate to your life now.

Spiritual Relationships:

Business Relationships:

Professional Relationships:

Personal Relationships:

RESILIENCE

By definition resilience is having the ability to bounce back or recover quickly from illness or change. There is so much to be said about this word because it’s powerful! As I look back over my life and I think things over I realize that there have been so many occurrences that I’ve experienced and, yes I’ve been resilient…I’ve bounced back.

If I had not been in these various situations, my thoughts, my feelings and my opinion about this word would be very different. I have learned so many life lessons. When I was on The Keynote (reality show) I realized how fortunate I was. Many people in our society would love to be on television and in the public eye and I understand that, but for many it might be for the wrong reason.

My motives are quite different today. When I was younger it would have been more of a self servant vanity campaign, but at this stage in my life having battled addiction, and being a two time cancer survivor it’s all about grace and responsibility.

The Keynote is one of my many examples of how I’ve been resilient. I’ve bounced back with and for a purpose. I’m grateful for my challenges because now that I’ve bounced back I can give back.

It may take some effort, but my questions for you are have you been resilient or will you be resilient? Learn more about my experience on The Keynote: @ http://TheKeynoteMovement.com #TheKeynote

DREAM

What do you dream about? When was your last dream? What did you dream about as you were growing up during your youth? Many of us lose our dreams and our ability to dream.

Scientifically I’m told that we dream nightly, but we don’t remember those dreams. Now there is another side to those of us with plans and goals. It seems that we go from imagination or visualization, to discussion and eventually dreams.

My point is that dreaming can be a big part of your development, evolution and your success. When I was a child I dreamed and hoped for a career as a musician. Many of my desires came through, but not as meaningfully as I would have liked because I got lazy.

When it’s all said and done I can only blame myself for my lack of success as singer. I was cute and didn’t think that I had to work on my craft. In hindsight, I imagine that I thought things would workout just because.

Nothing works out just because you want it to. We must put effort in all things. The silver lining is that…all of those years on stages and performance prepared me for the life that I have now as a National Trainer, Speaker & Author. As a cast member of The Keynote Reality Show I was able to use all of my expertise and new nuances to showcase my professionalism. What will or can your dreams afford you the opportunity to achieve?

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Collaboration…7 Easy Steps to Determine if You Should

Don’t be fooled…collaboration is something that we can all benefit from. I use to be the guy that did it all on my own and to some degree…I still do. I started getting coaches and mentors over the past 3 years and have seen a drastic change in outcomes.

Some of the outcome benefits are financial (products) and some are with potential to land speaking and training engagements. My point is that I understand why many entrepreneurs go solo. The range of reasons vary and they are valid, yet with good filters and people qualifying you can begin to get comfortable with collaborations.

1. Watch what they do when they aren’t engaging you.

2. Listen to the way that they express themselves and see if it matches their actions.

3. View or review their website, social profile, and any platform (including video) to see if they would have good chemistry with you, and you with them.

4. Over a period of time their attitude and general behavior should have a reasonable amount of consistency.

5. Work habits and ethics should align with best practices.

6. What type of credibility do they have?

7. What type of following do they have?

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What Do You Think it Takes to Become Your Best Self?

What do you think is vital to becoming your best self? What do you personally do to become the best you that you possibly can? There are numerous opinions and facts about this subject, however which ever option you choose doesn’t really matter because it all starts and ends with you.

My first question to you would be how well do you know yourself, and how much have you developed yourself? There is a logical progression to most things and this is no different. Our educational experience is crucial to our development.

Most of us start with the basics as we advance through 12 – 13 years of the basic education, and then on to an additional 4 – 5 years of the collegiate or university experience. During this time we are in one of 3 brackets. We have a sheltered, but thorough academic experience, we have a basic life experience based on day to day living without the education, or we have a combination of both which would seem to make the individual more well-rounded.
The most important point is to realize that no matter what bracket or category you’re in…it is imperative that you apply yourself. That relates to learning about a particular task, or literally doing a particular task. This experience will benefit you down the line as you encounter life hurtles and obstacles. There isn’t a blue print that determines your outcome depending on which category you were in. You simply must apply yourself, pay your dues, learn the lessons, keep the faith, and stay committed to the goal / task before you.

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Changing Difficulty into Simplicity

Anyone can hold the helm when the sea is

Anyone can hold the helm when the sea is calm. —Publilius Syrus

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Three Benefits of Helping Others

By simply sharing your knowledge and resources, you stand to gain three benefits — benefits that will position you as an industry leader while also ensuring the longevity of your business.

1. Create Brand Advocates
You can garner valuable brand advocates by simply providing help where help is needed. We recently took this concept to heart and hired someone who is solely responsible for helping our partners. Whether it’s providing a press opportunity, a referral, or simply valuable information, it’s that person’s job to find opportunities to help someone out.
As a result of simply helping our partners, we’ve gained a community of brand advocates who consistently refer potential clients our way, bringing us valuable opportunities.

2. Decrease Barriers
When you make the effort to help someone, you are given the opportunity to form a meaningful relationship, rather than a purely transactional one.
Take my relationship with Scott Gerber, “super connector” and founder of the Young Entrepreneur Council. When we met two years ago, we could have rushed into a strictly business relationship, which wouldn’t have lasted long. Instead, Scott and I have made a meaningful connection over the past two years by giving each other feedback on projects and providing introductions. As an added benefit, we were recently able to make a seamless transactional deal because of the trust previously established between the two of us.
It’s relationships like this — larger, meaningful partnerships — that will differentiate you from competitors and provide you with the credibility to make similarly valuable connections in the future.

3. Encourage Employees to Do the Same
By helping others, you’re setting an example for your employees to do the same. This means employees will be more likely to go out of their way to help clients, resulting in higher customer satisfaction.
Consider the debt collection agency CFS2, for example. It has a simple strategy: help the people they collect from pay their debts. By helping people create résumés, coaching them through difficult times, and providing other resources, CFS2 is outperforming competitors by 200 percent. This strategy is great not only because it reflects the company’s goodwill, but by sharing its knowledge and resources with others, CFS2 positions itself as an expert in personal finances. If your brand can garner a reputation based on both amiability and expertise, you’ll have more than just a profitable business.

DO UNTO OTHERS

Whether you’re young or old the golden rule is never outdated. It’s timeless! Something that’s so simple gets very little consideration. Don’t you remember those old sayings? If you don’t have anything good say, don’t say anything at all, treat people the way you want to be treated. Whatever happened to that mindset?
I understand that it’s a different generation, but that hasn’t stopped younger people from using music and other art forms from past generations. My point is to highlight the differences in a productive manner. As corny as it sounds, its as easy to apply.

Be kind for goodness sake. It’s only humane. So much energy is used in being negative. It takes twice as many facial muscles to frown versus to smile and depending how that affects you that ratio speaks volumes. Have you noticed today’s television reality shows and comedy programs? The brunt of each theme and joke is pain! Since when does every episode with a focus on pain become funny?
It seems that we are only physically created equal not psychologically. Today’s mindset is one of little to no compassion, yet compassion is expected in return. Are these the social norms you want your children and grandchildren to grow up with? No matter what status, race, or gender we are all entitled to being treated well. There is no excuse to be mean or cruel, so simply do unto others as you’d have them do unto you.

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