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WHAT IT TAKES!

True transformation isn’t easy. It takes awhile to realize that the change needed is real, and that it’s achievable. Many people think about it and even know that it’s needed, but won’t muster the challenge to initiate the variables to achieve success!

 

First you must acknowledge it, and mentally position yourself to realize how important it is, and figure out what are the steps to actualize it.  The power of the human mind can be amazing when it is coupled with focus. As the saying goes, if you can see it, and you can believe it, you can achieve it!

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Second, in addition to making the idea real in your mind, it will be necessary to change your patterns. Consider the people that you surround yourself with daily. Are they positive or negative? Are they the type of people that you can learn from and that can teach you things? If not you’ll want to make a conscious effort to be around people that are smarter, and more established that you are. It will also cause you to consider your activities. Are you playing video games every day, are you gossiping with the girls, or spending the bulk of your time on social media? You will want to adopt mentally stimulating activities such as reading books that teach you personal development principles or professional development principles. You may also want to consider webinars that you can participate on from the comforts of your home.

 

Third, where do you spend your time? The places that you invest your time is extremely important. Are you going you happy hour, or buffets? That can be ok, but not if you have a goal to extend your education, start you’re business, or get a promotion that will not help you.If you are going to go to happy hour’s or buffets, you should do it with the intention on networking! Additionally, it can be stimulating to go to libraries, or business districts versus hanging out at home or going to the movies every weekend.

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HAVE FUN WITH IT!

HAVE FUN WITH IT:

Having fun doing what you do is very important.  It’s been said that if you find a job you love, you never work a day in your life.  That means the first step is to enjoy what you do for a living. The degree you have, and the experiences you’ve had should ultimately outline your best skill sets.  I’m hoping for your sake that it’s already happened and your working in a dream job, or you have the business of your dreams.

I enjoy all that I do do as a trainer, speaker, etc…I mean no matter what hat I’m wearing…it’s like being a kid in a candy store or a toy store.  When was the last time you felt that way?  It seems that a serious expression can be mistaken for anger or super intensity, and it actually may be, but it may also just be a person dialed in 1000% and laser focused.

We sometimes need to notify our faces that we are synchronized with the heart.  If we look so serious, it seems that people may develop the wrong focus.  They pay attention to our expression and sometimes miss the message.  I understand that we can’t satisfy or reach all people all the time, but we should also be aware of how we look :).

If you enjoy it, make it contagious…SMILE while you do what you love, throw a joke in there from time to time….aww just Have Fun With It!

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Friday, April 5, 2013

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